Rants

i just need to vent my anger so badly!! i've been feeling pissed for the whole day.

i seldom get angry over stuff so feel proud okay!





YOU YOU YOU YOU YOU!!
the most bitter person i've ever seen. there's nothing in your eyes, heart, mind that's positive.
NO! nothing at all.
all you see is the bad points, and sulk at it.
criticising and yet nothing constructive came out of your mouth.

vomiting words that didn't even go through your brains.

Let me teach you what i've learnt in commskills okay!!

Giving Criticism

-The most impt thing to keep in mind when giving constructive criticism is to focus on valid and unbiased feedback.
-focus on concrete feedback instead of personal tastes because everyone has a different opinion on how something should be done.
-Giving criticism can be stressful enough, so try not to make it worse by being ambiguous.
-If your only response is "i dont like it" , then chances are you'll start an argument
-allow the other person the opportunity to explain herself.
-mind your body language when they are explaining !!!

Communication style

Aggressive communications
- You choose and make decisions for others!!!(OMG !! ANGRY!!)
- You are brutally honest
- You are direct
- You'll participate in a win-lose situation if you'll win
- YOU DEMAND YOUR OWN WAY!
- Others feel humiliated and defensive
- The outcome is that your goal is achieved at the expense of others.



have you ever spare a thought for others?
or all you care is about yourself. you're not gonna do well so others sacrifice for you.
your hush words, never change.


sometimes i would rather you not talk at all.